From Bec Judd to Phoebe Burgess, women share how the heck they actually curl their short hair.

If there’s one universal truth we all know, it’s that figuring out how to curl you hair is a task.

It’s annoying and your arms ache and you burn your fingerprints off, all for C+ curls that go limp far too quickly.

One woman who knows this is Mia Freedman, and when the Mamamia co-founder asked her Instagram followers for help with curling her short hair this week, they delivered.

 

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No, it’s not a sex toy. It’s a new hair curler wand thingy that I bought on the weekend because I am trying to try harder with my hair instead of wearing it straight like I have for 48 years (actually more like 46 – I was bald AF for the first two years of my life). Oh and that time in the 80s when I was into crimping. But! Curls! I’m trying to do waves but besides burning myself frequently, this new wand from @thedrybar is not holding the curls. What should I do Instagram? How do I make them stay wavy. Hair is hard. But as @glennondoyle says WE CAN DO HARD THINGS.

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As Mia said, hair is hard. And trying to curl short hair is even harder.

Thankfully, celebs like Bec Judd, Phoebe Burgess and Antonia Kidman*, as well as beauty editors and regular folks, came with the best tips for mastering a textured, wavy lob. From which curling wand is best to the nifty tricks that make a difference, here’s what you need to know.

*Technically, Antonia Kidman offered “no advice, only sympathy.” Thank you, Antonia.

Curling wands vs. curling with a hair straightener.

The debate around whether it’s better to curl your hair with a straightener or a curling wand will wage on long after we’re all gone. It comes down to personal preference (it was a 50/50 split in the comments on Mia’s post) and the style of curl you want (straightener for beachy waves, wand for more classic waves), but both require practice. No one wakes up one day and masters the perfect chic wave on the first go. No, you work at it.

Side note – here’s what hairdressers are really thinking when they’re working on your hair (hint: it’s not what they actually say). Post continues after video.

Something Bec Judd, Phoebe Burgess and former Cosmopolitan beauty director Alexis Teasdale all pointed out is the size of your curling wand matters when you have short hair, so opt for a thinner barrel or wand you can actually wrap your hair around a few times.

Oh, and if you’re using a curling wand, for God’s sake please use a heat protecting glove. Most tools come with one. Don’t be a martyr.

Best curling wands for short hair.

Keen to try a curling wand? Here are five great curling wands for short hair.

Remington Keratin and Argan Oil Nourish Curler, $39.99.

BabylissPRO Ceramic Black Conical Wand - 25-13mm, $84.95.

HALO The Marilyn Curl Stick, $139.95.

MUK Curl Stick V2.0, $159.95.

ghd Curve 2.0 Creative Curl Wand, $245.

Other hair curling tools.

You can also try some other curling tools, however each has their own pros and cons. For example, tools like the ghd Oracle, Dyson AirWrap and Rusk MiraCurl Salon Professional Automatic Curler do all the hard work for you by using air or a motor to curl the hair, but it takes practice to master how to use them.

Then, there's a tool like the Mermade Hair Waver, which is affordable and can create Kim K-style mermaid waves, but you're limited to that one style.

Best hair products for curling hair.

If you thought all you needed to curl your hair was a... curling wand, you're mistaken.

No, you need a multitude of hair styling products. You actually only need two - one to prep the hair before you curl and one to help set it after.

Prepping your hair with a texturising product like the Oribe Dry Texturising Spray, KEVIN.MURPHY Full.Again Thickening Lotion, Redken No. 5 Dry Shampoo Paste, KLORANE Gentle Dry Shampoo, Schwarzkopf Extra Care Push Up Volume Powder or Kristen Ess Dry Finish Working Texture Spray will give your hair the grit it needs to hold a curl. Work this into your roots and through the lengths, and spray each section of hair before curling.

After you've finished with your curls (more on that in a bit), lock them in with a nice spritz of a product that will hold your waves without making them crunchy, like the L'Oreal Paris Elnett Satin Normal Strength Hairspray, KEVIN.MURPHY Anti.Gravity.Spray or ELEVEN Give Me Hold Strong Hairspray.

 

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How to curl short hair.

Here are five extra tips for how to master the art of curling short hair.

1. Never, ever curl freshly washed hair. (Or don't expect it to hold well if you do.)

Look, you can curl freshly washed hair, but the curls will likely fall out before you've left the house.

That's why using a tong or a straightener to curl your hair is a great second-day-old style to get you through until you next wash it. You can create faux grit by using a texturising powder or, as mentioned above, a dry shampoo sprayed throughout the lengths of your hair to give it some structure.

2. Create tighter curls than the ones you want.

As many of the women who commented on Mia's post can attest to, the tighter the curls, the longer they'll last.

That means curling shorter sections of hair at a time, and if you're using a curling wand, winding the hair more tightly around it (always away from the face, not towards it). Be sure to hold the hair around the hot tool for at least five to 10 seconds, too. Yes, you'll look like an 80s beauty queen, but don't worry because the curls won't stay like that for long.

3. Don't curl your hair all the way to the end.

 

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When I interviewed Trinny Woodall for the You Beauty podcast, she said she never curls the ends of her hair because it looks "daggy". Phoebe Burgess agreed, saying the "secret to a cool girl wave is definitely leaving ends straight."

So, start your curls just above ear height and leave one to two inches straight at the bottom for a chic, modern look.

You can listen to Trinny's full interview on her favourite skincare, makeup and hair products on the You Beauty podcast below. Post continues after audio.

4. Please, don't touch your curls until they're cool.

This is VERY important, hence the caps.

It'll take a touch more time, but making sure your curls have completely cooled down and set before touching them is the key to a long-lasting style. We're talking hair science now, but essentially, your hot tool breaks the hair bonds (at a temperature that won't cause permanent damage) and when the hair cools down, it re-sets those bonds into their new shape.

For maximum hold, you can gently hold the shape of each curl in your hand before moving on to the next section of hair or pin them up. Or, simply resist the urge to touch or run your fingers through your curls until the very end.

5. How to brush your curls out.

The final and most satisfying step is to brush your curls out. This is how stylists turn tight ringlets into silky waves.

Once your curls have cooled and set, this is best done with fingers or a wide tooth comb. Don't be afraid to tip your head back and really get your fingers in there to massage your hair at the roots for more volume.

And that, dear friends, is how to curl short hair. Good luck!

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