But at the reunion special, Bill Goldsmith didn’t even show his face.
Although Bill and Alex declared their love to each other and left Paradise together, within just a few weeks, their relationship in the outside world was well and truly over.
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Speaking to Mamamia, Alex said that when she and Bill left Paradise, their relationship quickly changed.
“It was an amazing two, three weeks. It was really nice getting to know each other,” Alex told Mamamia.
“But all of a sudden, there was a huge shift in our relationship. He started to get distant, he was very distracted and I knew that something wasn’t quite right,” she continued.
“In the end, my intuition was right. We had a discussion about our relationship and he told me that he didn’t love me, even though he told me he loved me on the show. So that kind of finished our relationship.”
Early on in the reality TV series, Bill went on a date with fellow contestant Florence, while he was committed to Alex.
With no clue of what had really happened between Bill and Florence on their date, watching it play out on screen when the episode aired was “really hard” for Alex.
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“In a way, I knew that something was going on [between Florence and Bill] and I didn’t like the feeling of being made to look silly,” Alex told Mamamia.
“It was hard, because every time I asked him, ‘what’s going on?’, he would say ‘that’s not right, that’s not true’. I had one girl, who was distraught and upset and then Bill, who was getting quite defensive and upset about it too,” she continued.
“When I watched it back, I was really disappointed by the things I saw that I kind of overlooked when I was in there. I wanted to believe him.”
Alex was particularly shocked to see Bill’s aggressive behaviour towards Florence while watching the show back,