My husband calls me the Grinch for not wanting our Christmas tree up yet. But this is unjustified as I love, love, LOVE Christmas. I just want Christmas, to feel like Christmas… when it’s actually Christmas.

Nowadays, it seems no sooner have the pumpkins and skeleton masks been whipped off the store shelves; Christmas crackers and family-size buckets of Celebrations swiftly replace them. Seriously, an unscheduled trip to the shops last month saw me walking amongst the glittering aisles, listening to Frosty the Snowman, feeling like I’d entered some sinister parallel universe.

Yep, in my opinion, we’re starting to lose the magic of the silly-season because it’s all starting too bloody early. And to those who put the tree up in November – you’re killing Christmas!

It’s not that I don’t want to decorate the tree with the kids and rearrange it as soon as they’re in bed, because I do. After all, who doesn’t swoon at pretty fairy-lights? It’s just that I can’t help thinking that having the tree up ridiculously early kind of dilutes all the magic and the anticipated ceremony of it all: a glass of wine in one hand, mince pie in the other and Fairytale of New York on repeat.

As a Brit kid back in the day, our tinsel-laden tree went up a week before Christmas and not a second before. If it was just down to me – that’s how I would run the show now. The entire Christmas period was condensed into two weeks and because of that, felt just so… Christmassy! Plus we had a real tree back then which would otherwise have been dead by Christmas Eve.

So yet again hubs and I find ourselves (north) poles apart on this pressing issue of when to put up the tree and set-up our expanding ‘Christmas village’ display (his pride and joy). He declares we’re already way behind schedule but I’m pushing for 15 December. We’re not really religious but to set our squabbling aside (not very Christmassy), I start to think about some other meaningful ways of preserving the spirit of Christmas for us and our boys.

According to science, putting up your Christmas decorations early makes you happier.

When we lived in Newcastle, NSW, we always bought a gift for Kmart’s Wishing Tree. But now that we’re in the UK, I look for other ideas. So we sign-up for a similar charity initiative, where we wrap and fill a box with small gifts for a child who would otherwise go without any presents.

It’s a little gesture but it seems a good opportunity for the boys to learn about kids less fortunate. They help pick out the pressies and hand-make cards to go inside (in fact, my youngest spends ages drawing a beautiful festive airport on his). We go to the grocery store and donate Christmas foods to their food bank.

I know these are small tokens which many of us do. But now the boys are getting a bit older, I hope they’ll better understand the meaning behind getting involved.

Next I realise that though I can’t wait to have family round for the main event; one of the things I miss most about Aussie Christmases, are Carols by Candlelight. Gathering around the box on Christmas Eve’s great but what I really loved was going out to our local Carols by Candlelight in Newi – armed with the picnic rug, bubbles and twenty varieties of cheese. The weather was perfect for sharing the love with friends but also our entire wider community and though there are singalong nights here; freezing in the dark and drizzle just doesn’t have the same appeal.

Therefore I’m going to try and bring the community to us. We’ve recently moved home and haven’t yet properly met the neighbours, many of whom are older. So I’m going to drop a note round the street inviting them to ours for a festive tipple.

What about new family traditions? Somehow we missed the rise of the elf-on-the-shelf gig and now it’s far too late to have him randomly show up this year (leading to questions about why he’d not bothered before). But inexpensive Christmas Eve boxes we can do. New pyjamas, chocolate coins and The Night before Christmas to snuggle up with will hopefully see them trot off to bed way before Santa’s due to visit. Maybe not too many chocolate coins.

Last Christmas Eve, hubs made damper in the embers of our cute little wood burner which the kids thought was great fun and we’ll continue that tradition this year. And for some reason, I always remember reading years ago that Pete Andre had started making pancakes Christmas morning with his kids. Sounds like a winner.

Finally hubs and I have made a deal. The tree is on hold a little while longer but the tiny villagers can begin their festivities just as soon as he can unpack their masses and locate the fake snow. Yep, there’s talk of a blizzard this year.

When do you put up your Christmas tree? Tell us in the comments section below.

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