It’s a week and a half ’til Christmas and chances are you’re either counting down the days until your break or wondering how on earth you’re going to get everything done before the December 25th deadline.
Either way, you’re tired.
Don’t worry, you’re not alone. A quick poll around the Mamamia office found most of us were feeling a bit energy-zapped, if not utterly exhausted.
So what is it about December and Christmas time that makes us so fatigued?
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Of course, the short answer is we’re all so busy. There are more social engagements, more work deadlines, more things to buy and events to organise than at any other time in the year.
But is it this general busyness alone that’s making us so tired? Or is there something more to it?
To find out, we spoke to clinical psychologist, Samantha Clarke from Mind Body Resilience, who said the lack of energy felt at this time of year had as many mental causes as physical ones.
“Generally we get a break over the Christmas-New Year period, but by December we’re so worn down by the running of daily life over the year that December is a lot harder,”
Dr Clarke PhD says.
“But then we add on top of that all the expectations. Things are on a quicker schedule at work, but then we’re also trying to fit in all these social gatherings, plus then trying to be prepared for Christmas.
“And emotionally Christmas can be a hard time for people, so knowing you’re going to spend 10 days with your family, or with your in-laws and there’s tension – that can be a bit of anxiety that adds to that mental load that impacts us around this time.”
Dr Clarke adds this pressure sucks the fun out of things we’d normally enjoy, compounding the issue.
“Even if they’re pleasant things to do – like your week might be filled with your Christmas party, your partner’s Christmas party and buying Christmas presents – you can be feeling this sense of urgency and trying to get things done.”
“Rather than being able to enjoy buying that gift for that person that you love, it feels like an added pressure that’s got to get done within a constrained timeframe.”