
“These are career women where it just doesn’t fit into their schedule but they want to have a child. It’s becoming more of an option, and if it wasn’t so expensive, I think more women would do it.”
In the United States, there’s a new frontier in the Reproduction Revolution.
Over the past five years, in a practice which has been dubbed “social surrogacy”, more women than ever in the US are choosing to go down the route of surrogacy – even when there’s no medical reason to do so.
Mamamia’s daily news podcast The Quicky spoke to The Guardian journalist Jenny Kleeman about the rise of social surrogacy in the US.
Listen to The Quicky’s full chat with Jenny Kleeman below. Post continues after audio.
During the interview, Kleeman explained that although these women want to have babies that are biologically their own, they don’t want to carry them – but despite what you may think, it’s not about vanity.
“It was always about career – this isn’t about vanity,” she said.
“There’s this idea that their careers are threatened if they either take time out from work or if their body changes.
“Obviously, the doctors that I spoke to in LA that have a lot of clients that are models and actresses, they were worried about losing their careers – especially if they were swimsuit models, for example.”
Although many may assume that it’s big name celebrities that are leading the social surrogacy trend, Kleeman explained that it’s not exactly the case.
Top Comments
So if these women are too busy to be pregnant, wouldn't they be too busy to look after children? Do they just want biological offsprings to continue their genes? I don't get why anyone wants children if they are too busy to look after them.
Maybe - shock, horror - the father might be taking up the dominant child-rearing role in the family? Or they're outsourcing a lot of the grunt work to a nanny, grandparent or child care so both parents can work?
Out of interest, do you similarly judge men who don't take sizeable chunks of time off when their children are born? Or is your expectation of sacrifice different for women?
They'll pay for nannies.