What would you do if you were alerted to your 14-year-old daughter having provocative pictures posted on her Instagram account?
I don’t think it’s as simple as one might first think.
Let’s get some context.
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My husband went to drop his 12-year-old daughter (my step-daughter) back to her mother the other night. Standing on her doorstep, she said to him, ‘Have you seen Delia’s Instagram pictures?’
He hadn’t, of course, so she showed him.
Now, I’m not bothered about getting into his ex’s motives behind showing him the pictures and bringing this issue to our attention. His ex has never really caused us any problems and I’m happy to focus on the matter at hand — the pictures and my 14-year-old.
When he got home, he was fairly fired up and animatedly told me that Delia had posted sexy pictures on Instagram.
‘What are we going to do about it?’ he said in parenting panic.
‘She is pretty mature,’ I said. ‘What were the pictures like?'
‘Awful,’ he assured me. ‘She had a tiny dress on with her boobs bulging out of the top, and in other, she has a skimpy dressing gown on pulling a side pose which reveals her hip; and in another, she’s showing the bracelets on her wrist but her arm conveniently sits in her crotch area which is only just covered by the dressing gown!’
His shock and dismay was clear to see.