When Alanya Kolberg went to her local park with her young son Carson, she noticed something rather peculiar.
Carson had three toys on him. Within minutes, six boys had approached, demanding he share his toys with him, notably disappointed when he was visibly overwhelmed and clutched the toys to his chest.
“You can tell them no, Carson,” she told him. “Just say no. You don’t have to say anything else.”
After receiving what she calls some ‘dirty looks’ from other parents, Alanya Kolberg wrote on Facebook to clarify one thing: No, her child doesn’t have to share with yours.
In a post that has since been liked more than 200,000 times and shared almost just as much, Kolberg covers one of the great taboos when it comes to parenting little children.
“If I, an adult, walked into the park eating a sandwich, am I required to share my sandwich with strangers in the park? No! Would any well-mannered adult, a stranger, reach out to help themselves to my sandwich, and get huffy if I pulled it away? No again,” she wrote.
“So really, while you’re giving me dirty looks, presumably thinking my son and I are rude, whose manners are lacking here? The person reluctant to give his 3 toys away to 6 strangers, or the 6 strangers demanding to be given something that doesn’t belong to them, even when the owner is obviously uncomfortable?”