By ANONYMOUS
Last night I snapped.
My former brother in law contacted me on social media and was highly inappropriate.
This has been an ongoing saga with him. It started when I was just 16-years-old and he first started dating my sister. He would hug me and linger… I constantly felt his roving gaze.
He would ask inappropriate questions, about whether or not I’d had sex yet or how far had I gone with guys.
I stopped going to visit my sister and if they came over for dinner, I would wear baggy jeans and big jumpers. He would corner me in the kitchen and tell me what a great body I had and that I shouldn’t hide it.
I felt like I couldn’t wear shorts around him. Over time, my relationship with my sister grew distant.
It wasn’t long after my 17th birthday that my sister announced she was pregnant. She was unbelievably thrilled and they had plans to have a shot-gun wedding before the baby was born. It was around this time that one of my sisters closest friends confronted her saying that her future husband had been cracking onto her and making inappropriate remarks towards her.
My sister, in all her wisdom, did not believe her friend and completely cut her out of her life. The wedding was to go ahead and as my sister’s belly grew bigger. Then they ended up having to move back home because my sister had to stop work and they couldn’t afford rent where they were.
I hated having him live with me, and felt trapped. I was always hiding out in my room or I was staying late back at uni to avoid going home and having to see him.
It happened on the Wednesday and about 3 weeks before their wedding. I called my mum asking her to come and pick me up from the train station.
As I stood there waiting, his car pulled up. Apparently he had volunteered to come and get me.
I got in the car and kept my bag on my lap, hiding my legs. I was hating the fact that I had worn shorts to uni that day.
He drove us home and tried to bait me into having an inappropriate conversation with him. I kept looking away and giving one word non-committal answers.
I was willing the car ride to get faster. I was uncomfortable sitting in such a enclosed space with him and I just wanted to jump out of the moving car. We were about 3 minutes from home when he pulled the car over to the side of the road and turned and looked at me.
I froze and could feel my heart start to beat faster. I was thinking about how quickly I could unbuckle my seat belt and make a run for it when he turned to me and told me how attractive I am and how I could do so much better than my current boyfriend.
He then told me his ultimate fantasy would be a threesome with me and my sister.
I sat there thinking about how in three weeks my sister was going to be marrying this asshole and how she was six months pregnant with his son and here he was cornering me in a car and sexually harassing me.
I don’t remember what I said in response but shortly after he started the car and drove the short distance home.
My heart was beating out of my chest and I felt like I was going to puke. I stumbled into the house and made a bee-line straight for my bedroom.
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I cried while reading this has happened to me as well. My brother in law has been extremely inappropriate with me. Actually taking his dick out of his pants whenever I was the only one in the room, saying inappropriate things, and more. He lives in the same house as me. I remained quiet for months bc I do not wanna hurt my sister. But one day he was just too direct by knocking on my bedroom door asking to see pictures of me. I lost it at that point. I actually had a panic attach. Not in front of him bc i immendiately went downstairs to tell my other sister (not the one married to him). I broke down in tears, barely being able to breathe, we told my mom that same night and my mom just goes like “but what can we do? It would cause an scandal. We can’t do anything. And even said that I shouldn’t tell my dad. I didn’t tell him for months but then I did bc he noticed something was happening. He wanted to talk to him (my brother in law) but my mom controls my dad, he doesn’t have any balls. So she convinced him that it would hurt my sister and may cause their marriage to end. So I’m still living thing nightmare. He stopped being inappropriate bc he noticed that I don’t wanna talk to him, look at him or anything. But I’m still not ok. whenever I’m in the kitchen by myself and he enters and stays there I feel my skin crawling, tears building up, shortness of breath. It just hurts more that my mom cares more about him, she speaks to him like nothings happened. My parents betrayal is what pains me the most. So telling the people that should want to protect me more did nothing for me. Made me feel worse. My mom is so overprotective about me going out and all and yet she doesn’t wanna protect me from the monster living in the room across mine
So I'm new to this but this is my story of my current situation,I have been with my boyfriend for almost two years now. I love him and I love how things are going,but our current situation is stressful and I don't know what to do. My boyfriends brother in law became super inappropriate with me for quite a while but it started with me witnessing him creepin on younger girls while his girlfriend was pregnant. He would then progress to making comments about me being "hot" and "petit" and then trying to walk in on me in the shower. He once pushed his erection up against me in passing. Then one night I was falling asleep on the couch alittle intoxicated when I felt my boyfriends brother in law fondling my privates,I woke up and pushed my self off the couch onto the floor and he followed and very quickly pulled my pants and underwear down acouple inches exposing my butt. My boyfriend saw and they fought. He proposed to my boyfriends sister acouple of days later,We recently told my boyfriends parents and they have sweeper it under the rug,and not told my boyfriends sister what her fiancé did to me. Their wedding is coming up. Ps.i haven't seen him since but I will probably have to eventually,they're big on events that I will have to attend.