And then there are other women, like Christie Hayes, who can’t wait to get back on the horse.
Christie gets real about her sex drive after the birth of her first child, on our podcast for imperfect parents. Post continues after.
The 31-year-old former Home and Away star fell pregnant just six weeks after welcoming her first son, Hendrix, three. Eleven months later, she gave birth to Harley, two.
Christie says she found the whole discovery of being pregnant again so soon after giving birth “shocking”.
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“It was something I didn’t expect. I didn’t even think your body could think about carrying another baby so soon,” she said on Mamamia’s parenting podcast This Glorious Mess.
“It felt like my body was still pregnant from the previous pregnancy that happened.”
And while she was ready to have sex almost immediately after giving birth, she says a lot of other women don’t feel the same way.
It had been a long drought for Christie, who says she didn’t even think about sex the whole time she was pregnant.
“Nine months to go without sex is quite a long time, particularly when you don’t have children. When you have children, nine months is not a big deal,” she explained.