Like many, with Oprah back in the forefront of our minds, we’ve been reading self-help articles and trying to be purposeful in an attempt to make ourselves better people.
Let’s blame it on both the New-Year-new-you mantras and Oprah’s legendary Golden Globes speech.
So we were all ears when Mamamia editor, Gemma Garkut, shared with us one of the best happiness boosting tips that she says bought her and her partner closer together: the three-minute gratitude email chain.
And what’s one of the talk-show host/future presidential candidate’s key tenants? Gratitude, or the simple act of bring thankful.
Gemma said that she’s been keeping a gratitude email chain with her partner for the last three months and the results have been amazing.
Having lived with her partner for just over a year, they realised that even though they were over the moon about that arrangement, they naturally fell in a “vortex of negativity”, using the time they spent together complaining.
“We wanted to regularly remind each other that we have a very full, happy life, and somehow hold each other accountable to making sure we don’t forget how lucky we are,” she said.
“That’s when we read the well known ‘science’ of gratefulness apparently being the key to happiness.
“It’s recommended to write down a list of what you’re grateful for in a journal, but knowing neither of us would put the theory into practice on our own, we decided to create our own version.”
LISTEN: Robin Bailey and Bec Sparrow deep dive on gratitude, and ask the question: how can we raise our kids to be full of it? Post continues after audio.