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Leah Costa thought her fake engagement was 'making a point'. But people aren't happy.

After leaving Bachelor in Paradise and sporting a sparkly diamond ring on her finger during interviews and Instagram, Leah Costa had us all convinced she was engaged, causing days of speculation on who this mystery fiancé might be.

Then, in a lengthy now-deleted Instagram post on Tuesday, the 25-year-old had her ‘gotcha’ moment, explaining it was all part of a stunt to “educate” us about the “power of suggestion” and “fake news”.

It was supposed to show us, the reality star explained, how easily we could all be positioned to “create and accept [our] own version of the truth” and not just by her, but by “countless political campaigns, wars, media”.

But fans… well they weren’t buying it.

Leah dodged questions about her "engagement" while flashing the ring during interviews. Image: Studio Ten.

Many pointed out that while Leah may have meant to show us we could make a story about her engagement up ourselves, she actually gave many hints beyond just wearing the ring, and encouraged the falsehood.

Although, as Leah said in her Instagram post, she never confirmed the engagement, she also never denied it, and in fact said we "would know his face" and that he was from Melbourne. Something that left fans feeling lied to, instead of just, you know, manipulated.

"I can't believe I thought you were finally being real," one follower wrote on her Instagram post. "This is very disappointing. How can you think you are better then the media by fooling the public? Can't you see you created 'fake news' as well?"

Another wrote: "I’m not sure, but this seems like an attempt to justify your behaviour on TV? To prove that you are indeed not the person you were shown as being? If so, I’m not sure if this has achieved what you set out to achieve."

However, Leah's post to her InstagramStory suggested she had no regrets about the stunt.

Zara and Michelle chat all things Bachelor in Paradise. Post continues.

"Sorry not sorry for trying to encourage people to think and not just using the platform to self-serve," the post read. "Should I just do what everyone else does, every second photo in my underwear and hock skinny tea?"


In case you missed it, here's Leah's statement:

“In an era of fake news and ‘unreal’ TV, we are all constantly left questioning what to believe. Editing and manipulation are often highlighted when we are discussion the media. But what about the power of suggestion? This is the most important because without actually saying anything, you can position individuals to create and accept their own version of the truth. We have seen this done in countless political campaigns, wars, media and now reality TV.

“Now let’s focus in a little more on Bachelor in Paradise,” she went on. “Can I have a show of hands how many people truly believed they would see a same sex relationship form between @eloratahiti and @megan.leto.marx? Without ever having said it was, by carefully suggesting that the dark haired figure of @thomasmichaelperras in the water kissing Megan could be in fact Elora, you all created and accepted your own version of the truth, without the producers ever having actually lied.”

“Over the past few weeks I’ve been positioning you all to buy a particular truth, to try and raise the issue and get you talking about how often this occurs and just how much emphasis everyone puts on their version of the truth.

“You may have all seen a sparkly ring appear on my finger. Without having ever said I am engaged and without having ever confirmed or denied it, without even used the term myself and even despite clearly stating last night on The Project “your putting words in my mouth” I have managed to show you all the power of suggestion. For you to then go and create your own version of the truth based upon the little information suggested.

“I ask you all to understand the power of television and the integrity of the media. Educate yourselves about the things you are watching and the power of suggestion, but most of all take it with a grain of salt. Happy Watching.”

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