Hear that? That’s the sound of thousands of tongues clucking over the news of Jennifer Aniston’s breakup.
“I mean, first there was Brad Pitt, now this.”
“Poor Jen.’
“She’s just so unlucky in love, isn’t she?”
Well, not entirely.
Yes, her two-and-a-half-year marriage to fellow Hollywood actor Justin Theroux has sadly come undone – the pair told Associated Press on Friday that they made the mutual decision to separate at the end of 2017.
But Aniston’s life is not suddenly completely devoid of love.
She is surrounded by a tribe. One that she has (often) said brings her more fulfilment and joy than any romantic relationship.
Her friends.
These “goddesses” were there back in 2005 when she split from husband of five years Brad Pitt. And again after her relationships with Vince Vaughn and John Mayer came to an end.
And it seems the past few weeks – which included her 49th birthday – have been no different.
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- Friends: "To her, there is little more beautiful than a group of women spending time together, celebrating and supporting each other".
Ummm ... you mean, when you get out of a relationship, people you look to to fill in time until you go back to being in a relationship.
- " "We don’t need to be married or mothers to be complete,” she wrote"
Ummm ... so why when they meet other women, the first things they have to know are, are they married and do they have children?
Only married and/or childbearing women ask that: it's called validation of one's life choices. Those who feel utterly complete without a ring or pregnancy don't care, and in general don't ask.
Really? I disagree. My “inner circle” friends are my baseline - we met when we were 12 at boarding school, and if that doesn’t cement friendship nothing will. We have been there for each other through everything, and if someone has stuff going on (relationship, new baby, job stress, moving) it doesn’t matter, we see them when we see them - and we’ve survived divorces, cancer, IVF, miscarriages, stillbirths, moves overseas, mental illness, infidelity, catastrophic car accidents, abusive partners, abusive parents, redundancies - that’s what happens when you are truly friends over decades.
And those are not the immediate first questions either - usually so how do you know the host, what brings you here, how do you fit in? These days isn’t it polite to wait until people mention their relationship or parenting status in case you put your foot in it?
How do you know that’s the first thing they ask? Are you there? Do you know them?
Just going by my experiences. And actually, it's not only when a married mother meets other women. If a new woman is to come into an area, they are things they just have to immediately know.
Wow. I think the author has confused Aniston with her tv character. Maybe that explains why so many people are snowed by Aniston and fall for her manipulative phony persona. Aniston surrounds herself with racists like Chelsea Handler whom she recruited to abuse Angelina, call her a c among other things, and racially mock her adopted children. As an intro to Aniston as a guest on Handler's show. On two separate occasions. She racially abused innocent children and mocked Angelina. And Aniston walked on stage on cue, grinning like a cheshire cat. On two separate occasions Aniston grinned and walked on stage. We're all what we hang with. And Aniston's bestie is a racist and a self-confessed homewrecker - Chelsea Handler. Who dared attack Angelina.
Somewhere, Heidi Bivens is feeling pretty smug right about now. After all, since Aniston was the homewrecker who cheated with Theroux on set and off and broke up Bivens-Theroux. Heidi and Justin were together for 14 years. Aniston and Justin not even half of that. There have been blind items about Theroux cheating on Aniston for almost 2 years now, and story is he was caught cheating on Aniston. Oh well Aniston, you lose 'em how you get 'em. And she had the hide to act the victim from her break up with Pitt. Heidi must be feeling pretty darn good, as she should be. I wonder when people will ever see Aniston for what she truly is and the scales fall from their eyes.