
Are any other husbands out there sleeping with school mums? Is this an actual thing now?
Apparently there’s more than just activewear and bitchiness going on at the school gate – there are affairs.
Families are being destroyed in a place where families should be safe. I know, because it happened to me in the most brutal, humiliating way possible.
After almost 14 years together, and three amazing sons, we married.
But just three weeks later, he started to pull away from me.
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I didn’t understand what was happening. I was terrified and I didn’t tell a single person. I just wanted my family to stay together; I never imagined it would end the way it did.
Fast-forward five months, unbeknown to me, rumours had started about my husband and a mum from the school.
Eventually, he told me. Actually, he yelled it at me, with all the aggression in the world. He told me bits and pieces, lies and at times complete fabrications, minimising everything to protect himself, which ultimately caused me so much more pain later on. The pain, urgh, it was indescribable. It still is.
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Over the next few months the truth slowly came out. It was a mum who I knew, a mum who was in the same circle of friends as me, a mum I trusted. He left me, and is still with her to this day.
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I am now married to my partner who had an affair on me when we dated for 3 yrs - who moved in his lady after I moved out. They worked together, how unusual. Anyway I went away trying to fix the shame and hurt with the usual suspects but only made me sadder the next day. Finally moved overseas where he contacted me 2yrs later after he ended that relationship saying he wanted to be friends ....and now we are married with 2 great kids and no mistresses! Not saying getting back was easy but we worked though the trust stuff and now I actually trust him but I never forget. You have to look after yourself and look like your having a better time without him - fake it till you make love!!
What a horrible, spineless excuse for a human being that man is. Be grateful you’re no longer married to that piece of scum. He’s the other mum’s problem now! If he cheated on you, it’s possible he’ll cheat on her too.
Have you considered seeing a psychologist, who can offer advice on how to deal with anxiety/panic attacks, and how you can learn to rebuild your life?