“I’m the dog, I’m the king… there’s some things you might not wanna do, but they gotta get done.”
“Nah. Nah. I just don’t do that,” the music producer and married father-of-one told New York radio show The Breakfast Club in interview footage that resurfaced online over the weekend.
“There’s different rules for men. I just can’t do what [women] want me to do.”
The internet was quick to judge the man most known for shouting “DJ Khaled” over songs with the likes of Justin Bieber and Rihanna, saying ‘he’s missing out’ and calling out the ‘double standard’.
However, this wasn’t just a blanket statement, thrown out there without explanation. The 42-year-old justified his position on going down by essentially saying it’s just not something he’s comfortable doing in the bedroom.
And that’s fine. It’s completely fine for DJ Khaled to refuse to give his wife head.
Everyone has their limits when it comes to sex. Some things aren’t for everyone and no one should ever be forced to do something they aren’t into.
But it’s only fine on one condition…
That Nicole be excused from performing the same duties. Only, she’s not, which is where this goes from being fine to not.
Rather than an act performed out of love, he sees oral sex as a transaction.
I do X, Y and Z for her. She does this for me.
His ‘work’, as DJ Khaled puts it, is telling his wife the dinner she presumably cooked was lovely, asking how her day was, and reminding her of all the lovely clothes and cars his money bought her.