My boyfriend doesn’t respect my boundaries when it comes to social media.
When we first started dating, something happened that made me seriously consider walking away from him. One Friday night, we were drinking at his apartment. I headed to bed early because I had a long day at work. He stayed up to play a video game and drink a little more.
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The next day, at work, I got the story of what happened after I had gone to sleep. But not from him, from Maggie — a 19-year-old girl who told me, with a pained look in her eye, that my boyfriend had Snapchated her the night prior asking her for nude pictures.
It utterly humiliated me.
We are both in our mid-twenties, so I found this to be creepy and completely inappropriate, given that we both worked with this woman at the time.
Needless to say, I was really pissed.
As soon as I got home, I confronted him. Here’s what he told me:
“Oh my god, I am so sorry. I was trashed and can’t believe I did that. I never wanted to embarrass you. I’ll do anything you need me to in order to trust me again. It was late, and I was really drunk.”