When 12-year-old Drew booked himself a holiday to Bali, his story went viral.
Following an argument with his parents, the Sydney schoolboy stole his mum Emma’s credit card and booked flights and accommodation. He then managed to leave the country with his parents none the wiser for days.
But as fascinating as Drew’s story is, one thing Emma never anticipated was the backlash she’d receive, with others questioning her parenting skills.
Emma said the response since the story broke has been “very negative”.
“They missed what the story was about,” she told radio hosts Fitzy and Wippa on Tuesday.
“It was about how he did it. They don’t know about my parenting skills. They don’t know what happened in that week.”
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I think it is both! Clearly the the airline staff did not check ID/passport info/age, however, and yes, I am being judgemental and old-fashioned here - one look at him and his haircut would say he probably looks and acts older than an ordinary 12 year old. The haircut which I would never approve of for a pre-teen son, seems to show rough and lack of boundaries. Oh now I've done it, I should now duck for cover. But, one look at him.... You can just tell the type of families they come from.
More concerning is that his friend knew and thought not to call his parents, it never occurred to them they might be worried. And the people they know in Bali - presumably adults - it never entered their mind how a 12 year old got to Bali alone, and they never thought to contact his parents? I'd be furious with his friend and my so-called friends in Bali who never once stopped to think I might be worried. What the heel is wrong with all these people? Sounds like a messed up/dysfunctional group of people all round. I think his mother is completely oblivious to how other parents would react, so doesn't think she is to blame for anything. She is in some ways an enabler, and clearly there is a lack of boundaries and discipline and a lack of functional family life if they are used to a pre-teen child going off and doing his thing and being 'street wise' at his age.
I keep hearing this but I don't understand why. The airline allows unaccompanied minors to fly, so why would checking his age/passport (which I can almost guarantee was definitely done) have prevented this?
Apparently she thought his passport had been flagged as he’d tried this before.
First time I've heard that detail! Thanks.
I doubt DFAT have a way of flagging passports for undisciplined children. They're too busy flagging stuff like human trafficking, terrorism threats and illegal immigration to add "parenting" to the list too.
Actually, what I want to know is, why was his grandmother in possession of his passport, and why did she hand it over to him? That’s the bit that really makes no sense to me.
My thoughts as well.
That struck me, too.