Well.
This is a mess.
On Saturday, Babe published a story by Katie Way titled, “I went on a date with Aziz Ansari and it was the worst night of my life.”
In the 3000 word piece, 22-year-old Way shares the story of 23-year-old ‘Grace’, who believes she was sexually assaulted by the Hollywood actor and comedian.
As was Babe’s intention, everybody read it. But within the clumsily written narrative – littered with irrelevant details that, whether purposefully or not, undermined the very integrity of their subject – lay what is quite frankly media gold: The inability to put the story down and move on with our lives.
This was ‘The Dress‘ (the 2015 viral photograph, that had people yelling “it’s blue and black!” or “it’s gold and white!”) all over again. Except far more serious.
“Can you read this?” we asked our mothers.
“What did you think?” we asked our colleagues on Monday morning.
“Am I crazy?” we posted in our group chat, with a link to the story, in a desperate attempt to have our sense of reality confirmed by those around us.
LISTEN: Mia Freedman, Holly Wainwright and I have a heated argument about the accusations against Aziz Ansari. Post continues below.
And that is human nature. We are constantly checking that we have not, indeed, gone mad. “Can you smell that?” we inquire. “Is it just me, or…?” we suggest over drinks.
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"telling anyone who doesn’t think what we do to, “Shut up” "
LOL! You just need to add 'and calling them an idiot' and you have basically described the whole purpose of online arguments.
Is it possible to agree with both? I think she was sexually harassed or assaulted. She said 'no' several times and he continued. And she should've left. We need to be teaching women to not put up with this crap and leave. The problem is that we define this behaviour as not very serious and just part of life and in doing so we send the message that leaving is an over reaction. This was sexual harrassment, at the least, and she should've left.