Lindy and Azaria

By REBECCA SPARROW

I was eight years old in August 1980 when I saw the enormous newspaper front page. A nine-week-old baby, Azaria Chamberlain, disappeared from her family’s tent at what we then called Ayer’s Rock, now known as Uluru.

Lindy Chamberlain – Azaria’s mother – blamed her baby daughter’s disappearance on a dingo. The entire nation blamed her.

I remember the schoolyard whispering, the dinner table debates. Did she do it?  Did Lindy Chamberlain murder her daughter? Or was one of her sons involved and a cover-up was in place? She just doesn’t look like a grieving mother we hissed under our breaths.

I remember it all – as though it unfolded yesterday.

Lindy and Michael became the victims of one of the greatest mistrials in Australian history – Lindy being jailed for three years only to be exonerated in 1988.

And through it all Australia’s suspicion and fear of dingoes deepened.

So on the weekend I’ll be honest and say I was initially surprised to read that Azaria’s sister Zahra Chamberlain is now working with dingoes.

Surprised until I read what she had to say via the SMH:

When you think about it, it makes sense. That a young girl growing up hearing the myth-like stories of her older sister, hearing tales and accusations and the expression of hatred against an animal might actually become fascinated by them.

I get it.

It also made me think how sometimes in life the choices we make seem to shock and upset other people.  What do you mean you’re throwing in your job to study art? What do you mean you’re getting married or having a baby at 25?

If there’s one thing I know it’s this: life is too short to worry about what other people think.

And not that she should or would care, but I’m wishing Zahra Chamberlain lots of luck.