Melissa Logan is nervous about taking her son to see the movie, Wonder.
The Queensland mum-of-three is worried that people in the cinema will stare at her eldest son Charley or point and whisper “he’s just like the boy in the movie”.
Her nerves are not without good reason. Charley, like the film’s protagonist Auggie Pullman, was born with Treacher Collins syndrome, and in his seven years of life has faced the rude stares from strangers who wonder why his face doesn’t look like theirs.
Melissa told Mamamia that Charley notices people staring. It makes him annoyed and frustrated. It’s one of the only reason he ever feels different.
“He will turn around, cross his arms and say ‘why are you staring at me? I’m just like you’ or he gets quite cross now,” she says.
“There have been one or two occasions where you know we’ve gotten home and he’s been like ‘why do they keep staring at me?’ and then that’s normally when he starts asking ‘why am I different?’ or questions like ‘are my ears going to grow?’.”
The rest of the time, Melissa says, Charley is a “happy-go-lucky” seven-year-old who likes himself and is as optimistic, happy and confident as any of his peers.
Melissa says those peers have always accepted Charley for who he is.
“He’s still got the same group of friends (as in prep) and they’re all protective of him. The little girls are really good. They like to mother him.”
But that doesn’t mean Charley’s time at school has always been easy. When he first started prep there were some kids who picked on him and called him names.
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“We haven’t had too many bad experiences. It’s just kids being unsure and pointing and sort of laughing, but it’s more out of them not knowing.”