A number of Australian swingers have shared what it’s like to watch their partners have sex with other people, and whether they ever get jealous.
Swingers, both single and coupled up, appeared on this week’s episode of ABC‘s You Can’t Ask That and answered a series of risque questions.
Questions included whether they still considered themselves in monogamous relationships, if they’ve ever looked at someone and thought ‘no way’, if their parents knew about their swinging and of course, what their best sexual experiences were.
Most couples agreed the best sex they’d ever had is with each other, but Sydney couple Lawrence and Jessica agree on “the gang bang” involving two women and eight men.
Megan, a single Brisbane woman known as a ‘unicorn’ in swinging circles, said she believes the best sex is always with someone you care about.
Sally and Andrew, a married couple from Melbourne, share that the best sex they have as a couple is the day after a swingers party.
“We have the most incredible, connected, lovey, disgusting relationship sex,” Sally says. “Best sex we ever have.”
One of the most curious questions, about watching your partner have sex with someone else, was eloquently worded as ‘What’s it like watching the love of your life get pounded and loving it?’
Following their laughs, the swingers all spoke of enjoying watching their partner feel pleasure.
Watched ‘You can’t ask that’ ABC last night. Discovered I’ve led a sheltered life. All previous guilt feelings exterminated.
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“I’ve got to say it is the hottest thing I’ve ever seen,” said Andrew of seeing Sally with someone else.
Sally quipped back with “I am f*cking amazed every time about the amount of c*ck that you can take my darling, you are thoroughly impressive.”
Wolf, from Casino NSW, spoke of realising a fantasy he didn’t know he had.
“I suppose that’s the first time when I looked at you, you know, with someone else and am I’m like ‘that’s sort of floating my boat, that is. That sort of turns me on’,” he said to his partner Kat.