Knowing the moment will come doesn’t make it any easier.
The moment a child starts asking questions about the birds and the bees and S-E-X.
As prepared as anyone thinks they are, the moment is somehow far more mortifying than you ever thought it could be.
At least that’s what one mum shared on parenting forum Mumsnet this week, telling other parents she was caught off guard when her 12-year-old son started asking questions of a fairly personal nature.
“[Am I being unreasonable] to be MORTIFIED at this question?” she asked.
She explained that her son had come into her bedroom saying he had a “weird question” that he wasn’t sure about asking.
The question? “How often do you and dad have sex?”
After double checking that her son did, in fact, want to know the details of his parent’s sex life, she told him that it was “once or twice a week”.
“Even though I tried to seem calm and cool, it felt just really odd. Maybe because I was taken by surprise,” she wrote.
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Hahaha I was kind of thinking along these lines the other day! My children are 16 & 21 & we have quite open & honest relationships, which I know other's have judged us for. Not much is off limits in our household & I won't apologise, it's who we are & it mostly works for us. However lately I have been struggling with exactly how open I am with each of them. I sometimes feel it is more relevant to go into more detail with my 21 yr old than I do with my 16 yr old but I struggle with the feeling of not being entirely honest. To me, it just makes sense. It does have something to do with their ages & the fact one is female & one is male (please don't judge me) but I also factor in their different outlooks, opinions & attitudes to whatever we are discussing & whether it is a fact finding question, a moral dilemma or whatever. But what am I going to do when my youngest realises I haven't been entirely honest with her? Will she feel like I trusted her less or that I lied to her? Sheesh just what I need, another reason to feel guilty while trying to do the world's most guiltiest "job"