Watching my son use food to help cope with adjustment issues at school was one of the saddest times for me as a parent. It was also a time of extreme conflict. Suffering from Autism Spectrum Disorder (ASD), which made it difficult for him to make friends, he spent most of his Kindergarten year sitting on the silver seats at the edge of the playground, eating cheesy pizza’s he was buying from the school canteen for $1.20 each.
It never occurred to me that he would figure out to do this but he’s a smart little cookie. He quickly learned that the kids weren’t allowed to play until they had finished eating. In his head he translated this into – if I am eating, nobody will try and force me to play.
As a result my son put on an incredible amount of weight that year and by the time I noticed, it was too late to stop it. I contacted the school to find out why he had put on so much weight and they reported back to me, explaining that he spend the whole of lunchtime buying and eating food.
And not playing.
We put a strategy in place to prevent further weight gain but he hasn’t lost any. He also has too many other issues for me to prioritise his weight loss. I think that’s something that will happen naturally as he grows and gains confidence.
I wish the school didn’t sell cheesy pizza’s at all, let alone for so little as $1.20, allowing him to buy several each day with the $5 I keep in each of my children’s wallets in case they need a drink, an ice block or to donate to the school’s latest cause.
Now a new study out of the US has explained, once again, that children from poorer backgrounds will suffer more obesity issues than their more well-off counterparts and the problem will continue later in life, particularly in girls. One of the main reasons for this is how cheap junk food is compared to healthy food.
And sorry, but there is seriously something wrong in the world when a Wicked Fizzes (horrible chewy lolly at most sporting centres) and lolly bags are cheaper than an apple or a banana. Or a can of fizzy drink is more affordable than a bottle of water.
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In Australia, our remote and regional communities show a similar pattern to the US, with far-west NSW showing an obesity rate of 37.2 percent compared to Northern Sydney with just 11.1 percent.