
Anyone remember when Lisa gives her classmate Ralph a “pity Valentine” on The Simpsons, that reads, “I choo choo choose you”, because it has a train on the front?
Here’s a refresher of that iconic puppy love moment:
Most of us can relate to being in Ralph’s position: not getting any love on Valentine’s Day at school. Even worse, watching what seems like the entire student body get stuff. We know what it feels like to be ignored, rejected, and neglected on the most romantic day of the year, during out most formative years.
It’s excruciating. You so want to be one of the loved ones. But nobody loves you.
Except your parents.
Just occasionally, the people who’ll love you like no other – your parents – step up to save your face on the day.
Here’s are the best stories of how one mum, and one dad, ensured their daughters felt special on the completely-fabricated-commercial-event-that-nonetheless-really matters; Valentine’s Day.
The Mother
Freelance writer Maggie Panos wrote about “ The Time I Had a Secret Admirer For a Decade.” Starting in sixth grade, the writer began mysteriously receiving a huge bunch of flowers on Valentine’s Day, from an anonymous benefactor. In what she refers to as The Case of the Mystery Flowers, Panos describes how the day after the first delivery, her confidence soared.
“The next day I went to school, looking particularly spunky for a girl who literally wore the same baby-blue vinyl coat to school for the entirety of sixth grade.”
Panos felt special, excitedly telling her classmates about the experience, but at home, her mother pleaded ignorance.
It happened again the next year.
“Again, I sweated through those petty school “Valentines,” only to come home and find another overwhelmingly beautiful bouquet in front of me.” Panos wondered what could possibly draw a secret admirer to her 13-year-old-self, but it still made her feel so special.
The third year, Panos told her mother she knew it was her, but her mum wouldn’t confirm it.
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Finding the overall experience frustrating, Panos’ attitude can be summed up by this quote; “If you think getting flowers from your mother on Valentine’s Day is sad, wait until you get flowers from your mother delivered to your desk at your fancy new internship on Valentine’s Day.”
But her mother’s response was this: “You were so happy to get them in the beginning, you walked taller. I never received flowers myself until your dad sent me 12 white roses.I walked taller that year after the roses.”
In a postscript to the article, her mother adds:
“I never meant to make you feel ashamed, Maggie — I still am your secret admirer.”

True story.
The Father
Twitter user Miss Sanders recently posted about a special Valentine's Day experience with her dad, when she was in tenth grade.
On the morning of February 14th, she pleaded with him to not attend school, but he forced her to - for a very special reason. Her thread of tweets tells the most beautiful story.
In the 10th grade, I begged my dad for weeks to let me stay home from school on Valentine’s Day. I didn’t want to see everyone have presents and I not get shit. He forced me to go to school. I was So sad literally up until 3rd period. I was sitting when the door knocked -
— Miss Sanders ???? (@ClassiestQueen) February 2, 2018
There was a delivery guy with one of those giant teddy bears, a huge bouquet of flowers, and a huge box of chocolates. I was jealous af! I’m like damn somebody nigga going all out. I’m looking like... pic.twitter.com/EaX3gMw4Wr
— Miss Sanders ???? (@ClassiestQueen) February 2, 2018
The delivery guy said “Miss Sunshine”. I instantly knew they were for me, and I instantly knew who gave them to me. My father calls me Sunshine. pic.twitter.com/RsMEGhrTka
— Miss Sanders ???? (@ClassiestQueen) February 2, 2018
Ever since then, my dad has been my valentine. He gets me something every year I’m alone. Which is every year LOL.
— Miss Sanders ???? (@ClassiestQueen) February 2, 2018
Miss Sanders ends her thread with, "Moral of the story is, Fathers, you are your daughters first love. Be there. It's so important."
Pretty heartwarming stuff, hey?
If you're lucky enough to have a parent like this, make sure you look after them this Valentine's Day, too.
Nama Winston
Contributor - Parenting
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