Julie Venn, a mother from Illinois in the United States, has shared a traumatic medical experience about her teenage daughter in post that’s as ‘mama bear’ as you can get.
Oh, and it’s also brilliant.
Sharing the story on parenting Facebook page Moms of Tweens and Teens, Venn described what happened when she took her 13-year-old daughter Riley for a routine check-up.
“This week I took my 13 year old daughter to get her physical,” the mum wrote.
“I was excited to see how tall Riley would be as this year she has grown a ton! The coach in me has loved seeing her strength and size finally come along and the mom in me has loved watching this beautiful young girl begin to become a young woman.”
Riley was there to have her vitals monitored, and a nurse practitioner was doing the examination. Everything was going along as expected, but then, the nurse chose to ask a very inappropriate question.
“Tell me RILEY, HOW CAN YOU EXPLAIN ALL OF THIS WEIGHT YOU’VE GAINED?” Venn reported the nurse asked. The effect of her words were immediate.
“My daughter is speechless and her eyes begin to glass over. I am speechless and the NP goes on to explain to her that given what her previous weight was last year- the numbers just don’t correlate with her current height. Has she been eating junk food or has her activity level changed?”
It was a question that Venn responded to as any mother would.
“I LOST MY MIND. I had a literal, physical reaction,” she wrote.
Putting her hand up to the nurse to make it clear that she wanted her to stop, Venn said that it was not anyone’s place to question her daughter’s weight, shape – or body.
“She is 13, she is strong. She is healthy and she is PERFECT!”