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On June 24, 2021, Erin Molan witnessed a moment she'd long waited for.

After months of petitioning to change legislation around online abuse, the bill was officially passed in Federal parliament.

"This new legislation will ensure the laws that exist in real life will now exist online. It will help keep our children safer - and every Australian adult," Molan wrote on social media.

"It will help hold perpetrators to account - remove their anonymity and create genuine real life deterrents. It will force big social media companies to act."

She thanked everyone who had supported her in this fight.

"I took my daughter into Parliament House with me when this bill was introduced last week because I wanted to be able to tell her one day she was there when something really special happened," she wrote.

"When Australia did something important before anywhere else in the world. This will save lives. Thank you."

The impacts of cyber abuse and trolling are far-reaching, and Molan certainly knows that personally.

Watch: Erin Molan on 60 Minutes. Post continues below video.

For more than a decade, she put up with the abuse that came from her job as a rugby league presenter.

She'd just cop it. Even the grossly gendered, misogynistic stuff.

"Every single one was either that I was a woman, that I was ugly, that I looked like a slut, that I'd never played the game, that I belong in the kitchen," Molan told60 Minutesin December 2020.

"About different footballers that I've had dalliances with, about bosses at Channel Nine that I must have slept with. It's just vile."

Molan said she isn't a "snowflake".

"The other tens of thousands of Australians who are abused online are not snowflakes. I'm so sick of this victim shaming bullshit."

There was a "stload of stuff" she would accept, but other things she would not.

Molan's breaking point came after she received an extremely disturbing message while pregnant with her two-year-old daughter Eliza.

"I WISH YOU A F***ING STILL BORN, AND YOU DIE IN THE PROCESS. HIP HIP HOORAY," the message said.

Molan said receiving a message like that "really, really hurts" and sent her to "some pretty dark places", particularly given her older sister's experience.

"I have an older sister who had a stillbirth, carried a beautiful little girl to full term, Emily," she said.

"And to watch her bury her child and stand up with a little coffin and say, mummy loves you and she's so sorry.

"To sit there and watch my sister go through that, meant that my pregnancy was fairly anxious throughout. So to start to receive messages of that nature, really impacted me."

Days later, Molan and her fiance were asleep when they heard a loud noise. It was around 2am.

"It sounded like someone had, like a window had smashed or someone," she said.

"It was just a massive, big smash. And I thought that he'd come in, and he was going to try and do what he was saying he was going to do to my baby."

Thankfully, the bang was just a shelf that had fallen off the wall, but it was after that moment that Molan realised she could no longer put up with this level of trolling.

She went to the police, and after the troll sent more and more messages from various fake accounts, the man behind them all - a father of young girls - was charged. He received a suspended sentence.

The man behind the campaign targeting Erin, himself a father of young girls, was eventually charged by police, although he only received a suspended sentence for his behaviour. #60Mins pic.twitter.com/PqWO56uhIw

— 60 Minutes Australia (@60Mins)

Molan told60 Minutesshe had previously reported the messages to Facebook, but the social media site did not deem the messages offensive.

"This is not about celebrities. This is not about politicians. This is about every single Australian, because this impacts every single Australian," Molan said.

"The time to ignore trolls is over. The time to prosecute trolls is here."

She said a change in laws could make trolls think twice before they post online.

"You need to change the entire conversation, the entire narrative and say, 'Hey Johnny, if you’re going to troll, do you care about going to jail for three years?'" she said.

"'Do you care about being on the front page of the paper and your wife and your boss seeing? Do you care about you being held to account an

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