It was 7 am when my sister Aimee called.
“Did someone die?” I answered, somewhat surprised by the timing.
“Yes, Dad did,” she whispered solemnly, as I slowly sat down to take in her heartbreaking words.
But despite the devastating news, my life-changing loss of a father I loved, less than an hour later I was outside Aldi, waiting for loo roll.
It seems along with holidays, birthday parties and events, my grief is on hold. Cancelled. Self-Isolating.
Watch: Your questions about COVID-19, answered. Post continues below.
Our dad Medland, a happy ageing hippy, was 69-years-old, so his sudden passing was not something I had been expecting. Granted, he’d had respiratory issues for months but they were managed by his GP.
Then last week he was admitted to his local hospital in Cornwall, England, to be tested for COVID-19 for peace of mind. His results came back negative and he went home with the doctor’s consent.
So finding out that he had died in his sleep a few nights later was definitely a shock.
But, after I hung up the phone everything just felt surreal. I know news like this would always feel strange, but Australia was edging closer to lockdown – they had closed the borders just hours earlier and I was pretty certain there was no way I could go home, attend a funeral, pay my respects or have a final goodbye.
Top Comments
It was his influence that led me to move to West Penwith not once, but twice.
Your dad touched many lives. Mine was one of them. Hugs to you.
I’m so, so sorry for your loss but please don’t leave it too long to grieve as it will catch up to you. I know this as I lost my younger brother nearly 5 years ago and kept busy pushing my grief aside until 2 years later when my sister realised I’d had bad depression. Even I didn’t realise as it crept up so slowly. So please, I know it’s hard at the moment, but take some time to grieve and give all your beautiful children a hug. Thinking of you at this sad time 💝