When Laura* has sex with a man she met online inside a Sydney* hotel room, she’s not thinking about anything else.
She’s not thinking about her husband of nine years. Or her kids. Or the washing overflowing in the basket.
For a few hours, no one needs to be fed or bathed and nothing must be immediately folded or mopped.
It’s just the two of them. And it’s simple.
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It hasn’t always been like this, though.
“In the beginning, you sort of think about it a little,” Laura told Mamamia. ” You question, am I being normal? Is he going to suspect something?”
Laura had been married to her husband for about five years when she started feeling a growing need for, “something a little extra, a little different.
“There are some things that my husband doesn’t like or won’t do with me that I would like to…” she said.
Her interest in BDSM, an erotic practice that involves bondage, discipline, dominance, submission, sadism and masochism, was something she was struggling to ignore.