There have been many moments as a parent and working mum when I have stopped to question my life choices.
Of course, I love my children so much I can cry watching them sleep, but during other less Instagrammable moments, the mental load, constant juggling and the WORK of being a carer combine and I lose my cool.
Because in the work and the worry of being a parent on top of the work and worry of being a grown-up, there is not a lot of time left just to be yourself. The fully rounded person you were before life's heavy load landed on your plate.
Which is why Charlotte York-Goldenblatt's recent speeches – one to Harry and one to her family in And Just Like That – resonated with me, and mums everywhere.
Watch: Charlotte's speech to Harry about double standards. Post continues below.
In what was my favourite scene of the season finale of AJLT, Charlotte's husband Harry wakes her from her drunken slumber to tell her that Anthony is downstairs to talk about losing his "ass virginity".
After clarifying what was happening with Anthony and the kids, an exasperated Harry throws his hands in the air and says, "I can't do it all Charlotte!"