Today, Bruce Jenner confirmed that he is transitioning to become the person he has always felt he was: a woman.
He told Diane Sawyer: “It’s going to be an emotional roller coaster but I’m going to make it through. I’ve been thinking about this day forever and what I should do with my life. I’ve been thinking about this day forever.”
Note: Bruce indicated in this interview that he prefers to use the male pronoun at this time. So we have used he/his/him here.
And what a roller coaster it was. Bruce’s incredibly moving story made us cry, laugh and reflect on the journey of so many people whose bodies don’t reflect how they feel.
Our story on the whole interview is here: Bruce Jenner: “For all intents and purposes, I am a woman”
Here are 8 most beautiful moments from Bruce Jenner’s ground-breaking interview.
1. When Bruce found the perfect words to explain that he has the “soul of a female”.
“I’ve tried to explain it to my children this way. God’s looking down making little Bruce. He’s looking down and he says, what are we going to do with this one? Let’s give him a soul of a female.”
He also explained simply the fact that this isn’t about his identity – not his sexuality. He is and has always been heterosexual: “Sexuality is totally different than what my issues are.”
2. When Bruce finally untied his ponytail and let his hair flow over his shoulders.
Bruce’s whole demeanour changed as he released his hair. It was an honest moment – and one where all viewers could see Jenner physically relax and let down all his defences.
Watch it here:
3. When Bruce shared the impact of his journey on his relationships with his former wives.
Despite being very loving, when Bruce told his first wife Chrystie he was confused about his gender, “Like most women she thought ‘I can fix that.’”
He also said that his gender identity issues were at the heart of his break up with his second wife, Linda, in 1984.
Bruce says he told Kris Jenner about his hormone therapy when they first met and she saw him in women’s clothing. He said: “When you love somebody…You don’t want to hurt them.”
“I wasn’t as fair as I should’ve been to the women I married. I’ve apologized to everybody. I’ve apologized my entire life.”
4. The heart-warming reaction of his son, Brandon.
Bruce shared his fear about telling his kids. He said he thought: “I can’t let myself hurt them.”
The first person Bruce told about his transition was his son, Brandon, who appeared in the interview. Brandon said Bruce didn’t tell him the “best way” and that his dad’s having to hide was “tragic”.