On Tuesday night, news broke that embattled tennis star, Bernard Tomic had staged quite an exit from the I’m A Celebrity jungle.
It had been a mere 72 hours since he walked in.
His mental state, he said, wasn’t holding up. He needed to re-surface and re-commit to his tennis, the game he has played, loathed and loved for the better part of his 25 years.
“Half the time during the day, I’m just depressed,” he told fellow contestant, Jackie Gillies.
“I’ve never really had time to think about my thoughts. I’ve always had people around, my mobile phone… everything was so fast-paced.
“Everything’s slowed down in the last few days. I don’t want to spend half my time depressed here… thinking about how I played last year and where I should be.”
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Despite our consistent and loud calls for men, in particular, to be open and transparent about the depths of their struggles with mental health, Tomic’s despair curiously fell on a country of deaf ears.
Jokes were made, frustration aplenty and bullying pervasive across social media. Australia didn’t have much time for the “quitter”.
Get up, get going and get over it, they yelled, deliberately blind to the nature of mental illness and the hold it so clearly has on the tennis star.
Right now, Tomic can’t – and shouldn’t – give us much. He doesn’t owe us his time, his loyalty or even blazing performances on the tennis court. He owes it to himself, away from the prying eyes of a critical, impatient public, to get better.
But after two or three days in a jungle purporting to be for the Ronald McDonald House, Tomic probably owes some sick kids some money.