You see the enthusiasm of these parents-to-be. They’re so excited and just want to know everything. Well, not exactly – the mums-to-be do. The dads-to-be usually think it’s going to be ‘easy’, or are completely avoiding thinking about the logistics of a baby (good on them!).
My firstborn, our boy, is turning two in a couple of months. Eeek. Where the hell did that time go. I remember what it was like to be expecting our first. Well, I kind of remember – it’s all a bit of a blur! But I do recall that it was both an exciting and anxious time.
In the lead up to his birth, I was obsessed with reading ALL the advice. I had at least five baby books - some on routines, some on pregnancy and some on the all-important first year of a baby’s life. I drove myself, not to mention my husband, a little bit crazy obsessing over every little detail.
And you know what? You don’t need any of it. Not while you're pregnant.
Two years on, and a second baby later, I’ve decided it’s better to just live in denial while you can. Having a newborn is the most amazing, wondrous, hard, stressful, beautiful, all consuming time of your life. You never can fully prepare yourself for the complete life upheaval that having a baby brings.
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“But I don’t even know how to change a nappy,” I hear you cry. I feel ya. I was the same. Both my husband and I had never dealt with babies at all. No nieces, nephews, baby cousins, friends’ babies…no experience whatsoever, NADA. And you know what? You learn so much on the job. You just have to. And a lot of it is instinct. All babies are different, and you’ll learn what your baby needs.