Well, it’s been a few weeks since I had a baby and you’ll be relieved
to know I’m back in my size 6 white jeans. Yay, me. Also, I’m doing
triathlons to blitz those last few pesky grams of baby weight. Isn’t
that great?
Oh wait. It seems I’ve been watching too much E! News while
breast-feeding and am confusing myself with Nicole Kidman and Jennifer
Lopez. Silly, sleep-deprived me.
In actual fact, I’ve never owned a pair of size 6 white jeans except
maybe when I was, you know, six. Such a small item of clothing would
certainly be of no use to me now except to use as a burping cloth. And
a triathlon? That’s just funny.
Here’s the thing. Since giving birth, my body has not done much
bouncing back (although it’s been doing a fair bit of bouncing, if, by
bouncing, you mean jiggling). I have not blitzed my baby weight. And
apparently, this makes me different to every celebrity mother who has
ever drawn breath. That’s what the magazines shriek at me week after
week and I hate them for it.
May I make a heartfelt plea to the famous new mothers of the world? KEEP YOUR BLOODY GEAR ON AND STOP POSING FOR THOSE SMUG ‘HOW-I-LOST-MY-BABY-WEIGHT!” STORIES. ALSO? WOULD IT KILL YOU TO STAY OFF RED CARPETS FOR SIX MONTHS?
Seeing you show off impossibly flat stomachs and slim hips in tight frocks and skimpy bikinis does not endear you to those of us who don’t have access to personal trainers, private chefs, discreet liposuction and oodles of time.
Fact: Losing lots of weight means eating dramatically less and exercising dramatically more. Neither of which is compatible with breast-feeding or any other new-mother activities like, says, staying awake and remembering your own name. So the celebrity standard truly is a joke. A not-funny joke.
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I will NEVER forget a "friend" of mine , handing me a weight loss consultants card and saying "when you are ready to lose the weight..." THREE DAYS after my baby was born.
I had the last laugh tho... I didn't excercise (beyond dawn pushing the pram cause the baby won't settle...) but I was back to my old self within months( and in fact, fitter and she is still 15 kg overweight.)
I love the saying 9 mths up 9 mths down... the point I am trying to make is that our idea of post pregnancy image is warped, and instead of supporting new mums, and allowing then to cocoon with their new bubs, we expect them to bounce out of the hospital ward, to a perfectly clean house, and in size 8 jeans.
Not so long ago women spent the entire first week in hospital, and were allowed to rest and recuperate with their babies while mums, aunts and neighbours looked after them...
I actually feel sorry for these celebrities, how awful to be concerned about your weight/ looks when you have just been through the most amazing life altering experience... I look back with nostalgia to those first few precious weeks spent cuddling my baby in PJ's ;-)
Actually g, Mia instigated the whole 'Body Love' policy thing at Cosmo in 1997, and had girls of different shapes, sizes and nationalities in every issue. So i think these thoughts definitely occured to her. (Not that u need me to stick up for you Mia, i just hate when ppl are misinformed!)