Content warning: This post contains mentions of stillbirth some readers may find triggering.
And on top of feeling this overwhelming and insurmountable grief, there is something truly tragic that parents are expected to do.
That is to find clothes for their children to be buried in.
They need to find a gown. Or pick through bins of donated clothing to try and find something appropriate.
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This is what parents have to be thinking about – such a minor yet cutting detail – while grieving for their lost child.
There is, however, a group working to make this easier for parents – doing what they can to ease the pain during those blurry, stomach-churning, heart-breaking moments.
The Angel Gowns organisation in Australia transforms donated wedding dresses into gown for babies who didn’t make it. Either they were still-born or they tragically passed away at a young age.
Fiona Kirk, the founder of Angel Gowns said she started the organisation when she heard of a similar group operating in the US and wanted to help women in Australia with the same service – handcrafting old wedding dresses into a new symbol of beauty.