By NAMI CLARKE
This time last year I was waiting.
My daughter was to be delivered in three weeks time.
We decided on the 28th of June as the day she’d been induced because it was the longest amount of time advisable to extend the pregnancy.
We specifically didn’t want the 21st of June because that is only one day after my father-in-law’s birthday.
We didn’t want to spend every year hereafter wishing my partner Andy’s dad a happy birthday, with the anniversary of our daughter’s likely death overshadowing it.
Not that one week’s grace would have made a difference to the pain that was coming. Life as we knew it had already changed in the tiny window of time between one ultrasound and the next.
Much like my pregnancy with our first child, I’d been experiencing a completely ‘normal’ pregnancy with our daughter. So when I was informed it would be best if the head pediatrician and obstetrician interpreted my ultrasound results I was concerned but not panicked.
My husband decided to accompany me to the appointment at the last minute and we sat bored and impatient in the waiting room. We were completely and utterly unprepared for the sledgehammer that was about to hit us straight in the face.
Finally, they called my name.