Never in a million years did I think that I would be friends with a porn star.
And never in a million, billion years did I think I would be friends with a porn star who is also a prostitute and sex therapist. Talk about sexual multi-tasking.
My friendship with award-winning Aussie porn star Madison Missina is unlikely because my life – and sexual experiences – are the polar opposite of hers.
I’m a conservative, Christian mum from the suburbs, and I spend the majority of my time at home with my little kids. The people I encounter are usually other mums, tradespeople and the Coles delivery guy.
The chances of befriending a porn star in my cosy little life? Next to zero.
Madison has a bedroom tip for you. Listen here:
If you’re into numbers, try crunching these for me.
The other day, Madison told me that she’s had sex with around 12,000 people. And me? I’ve slept with one.
Madison lost her virginity at 15. I lost mine at 25, on my wedding night, to my husband.
So, where on earth could a porn star and a suburban mum strike up an unlikely friendship? In none other than the Mamamia Women’s Network podcast studio, of course.
Madison and I co-host the newest podcast from the Mamamia Podcast Network called The Prude and the Porn Star.
The most common question that people ask me about the podcast is: “What’s Madison really like?”
Well, she’s pretty normal, and actually, she’s a lot like me. For two women who have very different lives, we have a surprising number of things in common.
Madison and I are the same age, and around the same height. We’re both bubbly and chatty gals. We discovered that we have a mutual love for glitter, and we even have matching glitter-covered iPhones. We don’t like anyone taking our photo without our makeup on. We have a penchant for wearing fluffy, knee-high ugg boots in public. She knew about my pregnancy before many of my closest friends. And she’s confided some of her private thoughts on the sex industry to me.
We hit it off instantly from the moment we met. But as Madison put it, our lives have taken “different paths, babe.”
While Madison spent her teens and twenties merrily working her way up the “whore-rarchy” (her words) to become Australia’s number one porn star, I was converting to Christianity and attending Bible studies and church, while also staying home most nights to study for my two degrees. Oh yeah, and not having sex.