My friend Jo got married a few months ago and in the lead-up to the
wedding, her behavior was particularly shocking. Not in a Bridezilla
kind of way but actually the opposite. The invitations had gone out,
the wedding planners were planning themselves into a frenzy, relatives
were booking flights from interstate and overseas, the flower girls
were having dress fittings and the bride herself? Well, Jo hadn’t even
thought about what she was going to wear. I repeat: not only did she
not have a dress, she didn’t have a clue. And did I mention the wedding
was five weeks away?
I was baffled. After all, this was a girl who loves her clothes and
adores to shop. She was hugely excited about the wedding and couldn’t
wait to get married, so it wasn’t cold feet. So what was behind this
weird fashion reticence?
It was geography. You see, Jo lives in Sydney but she’s from Brisbane.
Her parents still live there. Her best friend (who was the only
bridesmaid) lived in London and Jo had no sisters. So without a mother,
bridesmaid or significant female relative to go bridal shopping with
her, Jo was a bit lost and very stuck. It wasn’t how she’d imagined
looking for her wedding dress: alone.
After finally working this out, another girlfriend and I quickly decided to take matters into our own hands. We made a few speedy calls to Rosemary Armstrong at Tea Rose, Collette Dinnigan and Lisa Ho and off we went, Jo, me and my digital camera. While she tried on about 17 dresses in four hours, I snapped away, making sure to get the all-important back view as well as fabric details and editing the shots as we went.
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Hey, overseas at the moment and reliant on hopeless internet cafes! Took small break from column. Will be back this weekend!
Mia x
I wished I had bought my wedding dress alone, or at least with just my mum, as it would have saved a lot of stress. I took my 2 bridesmaids who are both big fashion followers and/or victims. I wanted something classic, after all your wedding photos have to look good in 20 years time, your wedding is no time for big fashion statements. Mum was horrified when she saw what they talked me in to buying. It looked like my nanna's old lace night dress. Sure it was the latest look that brides everywhere were wearing but it was very expensive considering it had very little fabric and the shape would only suit the super skinny. Plus it just didnt look like a wedding dress, despite the fact that brides everywhere were wearing the same look thanks to the late Bessette-Kennedy bride, I looked and felt like I was wearing underwear and very plain. An underdone bride can look as bad as, if not worse than an overdone bride. After much debate, stress and 2 offended bridesmaids I managed to get the shop to exchange it for something more classic and bride-like and I went alone. The end result was fabulous - not overdone, not underdone, just perfect and just what I wanted.