Last week, we watched as Nikki Gogan became the first contestant in The Bachelor to score a date and a kiss with Richie.
According to esteemed commentator Rosie Waterland, their conversation went something like this:
“Yeah.”
“Yeah.”
“Yeah!”
“Yeah.”
“Nah, yeah.”
“Yeah.”
It was magical.
In perhaps the most compelling part of their date, Gogan shared that she’d never really ‘dated’ before, having been with her previous partner for a number of years, and having known him before their romantic relationship started.
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She said ‘I don’t love you (enough) to marry you.’
Yes, that is absolutely the right thing to do, as sad and as surprising as it may be for the other person.
Plenty of other people go ahead and get married even though they know it isn't right and their heart isn't in it, because of all the time put into it and ear of starting over.
Nikki may have well gone on this show to throw herself into an adventure after a 12 year relationship and having never really dated. I think it is probably a healthy thing to do.
Why is the ex-fiance being pursued by her lawyer ? To keep him quiet, maybe ?
I don't know, maybe because they were together for 12 years and that can lead to your finances being tied together and becoming complicated in separation.