by GENEVIEVE LISTON
‘Weatherman Syndrome’ is almost as prevalent as the common cold.
It is the technical term for the curse of the ‘almost good enough’ guy.
I first became aware of this disturbing phenomenon late last year when I was going through one of my self-induced man droughts.
I had decided after dating a series of boys and finding myself discontent with all of them, that I was going to give up for a while. So I took myself out of the game and went on hiatus from men.
One day, over a couple of ciders with a girlfriend, I let slip that I had been going out for breakfast and coffee with my personal trainer. I told her that he was kinda a nice guy and even though he wasn’t really my type, he was kinda cute… so I was thinking about maybe going for dinner with him.
She looked back at me with genuine concern.
“Gen, I’m sorry to have to tell you this,” she said. “But you have what is known as ‘Weatherman Syndrome’. But don’t worry – it’s entirely normal for someone in your situation.”
My situation? What was she on about? And how did she happen upon this diagnosis and what were my symptoms? And if it was so common, how had I never heard of it? Well, apparently it was the overuse of the word ‘kinda’ that led to my diagnosis.
“He’s KINDA funny.”
“He’s KINDA cute.”
And had things progressed, it might have been “Hmmm yeah I guess it’s KINDA a problem that he’s spiking my morning cereal with protein powder…”
She then went onto explain that one lonely night after spending months alone she found herself attracted to none other than the Weatherman. She had watched this same nightly news for years, how could she have possibly missed this? How could she have not noticed how attractive this slightly balding middle-aged man was?! And how totally CUTE that belly he had was!
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Single women of a certain age ( after 35 who are still single ) and have not been in a relationship for many years have to look at the common denominator .... themselves. Obviously you need to make changes . If the last many years have left you single you are doing something wrong. Change yourself for the better..Otherwise be prepared for a life with your cats.
I think you are making extreme generalisations! Not to mention, they are extremely rude ones at that
and what would your advice be to the men that are single after 35?????
There's lots of them, lots of them in front of them in front of their computers each night..
Michelle, women need to stop being so delusional and get real. Maybe you have been single for too long and this could be a wake up call to you. Its not rude, it is simply the truth. Maybe your friends have been sugar coating things for too long. That will get you no where. .. sorry sometimes the truth hurts a little.
Single 35 year old men can get 21 year old women. Typically they can go younger and younger. It is more difficult for a woman to get men after a certain age. There is a man drought, a single man has a large pool of women to play with, he can have fun with them, they will pander to him and he does not have to hear the word commitment because he is busy with an array of them, he can go young, his age or older. He has the upper hand. Women are putty in his hand , fighting for his affections.
We too have a term for this among my friends.
Instead of Beer googles, we say someone has 'None Googles'. Where guys look hotter than usual because you've had 'none'.
As in no sex, not no beer.