By Kellie Scott.
If teenagers believed advice from cult movies like Mean Girls, the birth rate among Australian adolescent mothers would likely drop from 1.19 per cent to zero.
“Don’t have sex, because you will get pregnant and die,” advised character Coach Carr.
But sex education in Australia is a little less morbid than that of the 2004 US comedy, and despite improvements in the availability of contraception and access to abortion, teens are still becoming parents.
According to the Australian Medical Association (AMA), teenage mothers are more likely to experience economic disadvantage, compromised educational outcomes and higher levels of psychological distress.
So why aren’t we celebrating and supporting the birth of babies to young mums, who are already finding it tough, in the same way we do for older women?
‘I felt too ashamed to celebrate’
At her sweet 16th, Sophia Mus-Talbot was not exactly planning on having a baby.
But soon after, a moment of self-confessed “stupidity and forgetfulness” led to her falling pregnant. Her partner was the father, but he ended the relationship weeks later.
Fast-forward 19 months, and Sophia is a proud mum to 10-month-old Spencer.
Like any parent, she juggles the role while trying to make a life for herself and her child.
She is completing high school in Hobart and advocating for better support for young mums through the Brave Foundation — a not-for-profit that equips expecting and parenting teens with resources and education opportunities.
“It’s really hard, it almost feels like you’re only doing everything half-heartedly,” are words not unique to this 17-year-old mum.
What has been dramatically different for Sophia however, is how her journey into motherhood has been received.