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Ever wonder what would happen to your frozen embryos if you broke up with your partner?
For over two years, Sofia Vergara has been in court attempting to bar her ex Nick Loeb from using the frozen pre-embryos they created at the ART Reproductive Center in Beverly Hills while still together back in 2013, unless he first obtains her consent.
The lawsuit the actress is attempting to avoid was filed on behalf of Emma and Isabella. Yes, the embryos. Sofia Vergara is being sued by her own embryos for the right to live.
Court papers filed in the US state of Louisiana, obtained by Page Six, reportedly list the embryos as plaintiffs, and claims that by not being born they are being denied inheritance set aside for them in a trust fund.
Now, Loeb is claiming his ex-wife tried to “punish” his attempts at becoming a father.
“A lot of people think I’m trying to steal her eggs and they don’t realise that an embryo is half mine,” he said. “Half my DNA and half her DNA. It’s actually a human being.”
Indeed, the reason this dispute has been so tumultuous and has gone on as long as it has is because the law in this area is incredibly murky. Who owns the embryos? It’s a question that is deeply rooted in ethical quandries and boils down to the age old question: when does life begin?
Listen: The Mamamia Out Loud team discuss the dispute and what should happen to the embryos (post continues after audio…)
The actress was with the wealthy businessman for four years before the pair split in 2014. Loeb gave the Modern Family star an ultimatum: give me children or we’re done.
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Ever wonder what would happen to your frozen embryos if you broke up with your partner?
No.
My now-fiance and I went through IVF some time back, and had a lot of clinic counselling and discussions about it. I was 35, with an apparently low egg/follicle count. He was 31.
Firstly, in Victoria both parties must consent before they are ever implanted.
While the intention was a family together, if we had broken up, he would do the required paperwork to become the donor rather than the father - absolving his rights and responsibilities. It would have still allowed me to attempt to become a mother with my own 35-year-old-self's eggs.
It never came to that. Instead, we fortunately conceived naturally and are now engaged also. But the 'what if' conversation is quite necessary.
I'm unsure that this option is known to many couples.
Usually the clinic tells you you can either donate unused embryos to a person/couple, donate them to research, or have them destroyed. The option for one parent to donate to the other is not really mentioned, but it can be done with paperwork if you're both in agreement.
All about him trying to have power over Sofia!