By MAMAMIA TEAM
Sex worker Rachel Wotton counts a number of men with disability among her clients.
A loud advocate for strengthening ties between sex workers and people with disability, Wotton has already co-founded Sydney-based organisation Touching Base.
Her organisation claims that access to the sex industry is a human rights issue for people with disabilities. They aim to assist “people with disability and sex workers to connect with each other, focusing on access, discrimination, human rights and legal issues and the attitudinal barriers that these two marginalised communities can face”
Wotton has also said she aims to eventually create the world’s first not-for-profit brothel.
Today, Mamamia sits down with Wotton to ask about her interaction with clients’ parents, her work with older men, and why she found Helen Hunt’s portrayal of a sex surrogate in The Sessions ‘really uncomfortable to watch’.
Q: You’ve said elsewhere that the role of a sex worker, in relation to some clients with disability, is about more than the act of sex itself. Tell me a bit about this role.
A: People so often have this myopic view of what sex workers do, and who we are and what we look like, hence one of the reasons why Scarlet Road was created- to really show the diverse nature of the sex industry, and the diverse nature of those who participate in the sex industry and our client base.
The definition of disability is a very wide spectrum- so, someone with depression who hasn’t been touched for four years- [there’s an element of] ‘skin hunger’ there. They’re not [always] utilising a wheelchair, and they don’t have a cast on their leg or anything like that; we’re talking about people with a whole range of disabilities. [Also,] the clients are getting older…
Q: So the age of your clients is something you’ve had to accommodate?
A: I’ve had some lovely older gentlemen whose lifelong partners have died, and they’re lonely. They haven’t been touched for two or three years since she passed away, and they’re just easing themselves back in, so they come to see me just for a sexual massage- so there’s no penetrative sex. There’s a lot of sexual massage.
…My friend, she’s in her 60s, and she talks about [how] her client’s daughter organised for her to go and see her father, and her father’s suffering from dementia… Someone who’s 90 doesn’t want a 20-year-old. They want someone older with life experience and things that they can talk about.
Q: So what sort of challenges do you face in seeing clients with disability?
A: Third-party assistance, I guess, is the biggest difference that sex workers to have to get used to [in working with clients with disability].
When there’s a carer, or a support worker, or a parent, or a brother or sister who’s assisting someone to see a sex worker- that’s a different part of my professional life as a sex worker that is different. Generally when you’re a sex workers you speak directly to the client and its all very quiet and discreet.
Q: How common is it for family members to arrange visits between sex workers and people with disability?
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Also, I believe that prostitution should be treated like any other job in Australia. These women should have rights at work, pay tax, be protected, and operate themselves like any other business. No I don't think they should be able to advertise on billboards or have signage that is loud and obvious (because I have a child and think that is too full on for them to see) but I think they should definitely be able to be modest but self-employed in their business and take the power from the pimps. Most of all the Australian government needs to tackle the many many women who are smuggled against their will into this country and forced into prostitution. People don't realize that this does happen in Australia, but it happens to thousands of girls every single year. Go to the back on your paper and look at the ads for Asian massage. Most of those poor women have been smuggled.
Women in the sex industry in some states in Australia do have rights, they vary from state to state though, in Melbourne at least there is an organization named RHED that can help them with just about anything, also sex workers are sub contracter and arecsupposed to pay tax, they are allowed to take breaks refuse clients and are not legally allowed to be made to do a specific shift meaning they work when they want and only when they want, however brothel can get away with shifts as, as a business they need to know what girls will be on when in saying that there is the option to work alone although for safety sake add a driver/security fee to your charge.
I totally agree with her on this. What a wonderful woman. Anyone can get on their high horse and say its disgusting or wrong but I have seen many many docos and read many articles about and by sex workers and its not all just rough dirty sex! Sometimes they just need to be touched, like she said. Sometimes they need to just be close to someone and feel accepted for who they are and not be seen as their illness or infliction. I would be very supportive of a non-for-profit brothel because it is a disabled persons right to have human contact or even sex if they want it. We cant lock them and their basic human needs away just so we can be politically correct.