Me, feeling much better about life. Image: Supplied.

Trust me, you'll find plenty of loose ends to tie up, but things like Westpac's Separation Checklist

Yes, it

You have to think positively. Recent Westpac research shows that 84 percent of people who finalised their separation did something positive or financially significant within a year of their separation - like paying off debts, taking a holiday or starting a new job.

And it often happens bit by bit.

In NYC feeling smarter and stronger than ever. Image: Supplied.

What's your life like after separation or divorce? Tell us below what has helped you through one of the trickiest times in your life.