There’s one conversation all the primary-school parents around me are having right now.
“Why do schools still think it’s 1950?”
You know, those days Tony Abbott longs for when everyone had a mother in a pinny waiting at home with freshly-baked cookies. When every household had two (straight) parents and dinner was always on the table when a man got home, Goddammit.
A time before “working families” and “career women” and “after care” and “Deliveroo”.
Of course, those times never really existed. Working-class women have always worked, single-parent families have always existed, not everyone was ever straight and statistics show that, even in the good old days, 48.7 per cent of women could not bake a biscuit if their lives depended on it*.
But still, it was the conversation I was having over and over in a school yard last Thursday, when my youngest started kindy. At 10am.
Two things to note in that sentence – Thursday. And 10am.
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My friend Lisa, a single, working mum who, like us, already has a child at the same school, was looking anxious in the playground. She wants to be there on the morning her baby starts school (of course she does, we all do) but the first day of kindy is 10am-2pm and her company has a big project launching this week. She’s meant to be in a crucial meeting at 10.30am.
“Come on,” she’s saying, as the teachers gently herd kids in over-sized shirts and enormous backpacks into wiggly lines. There’s no way she’s leaving before she waves her nervous daughter up the steps, but seriously, her boss is losing patience. After all, there’s just been six weeks of juggling holiday care and leaving early and starting late and smuggling kids into offices to play quietly on iPads.
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Kindy is still age 4, right?
I logged a 9am til 12 noon “workday” during that year, and I was normally passed out on my bed by 1pm. The 6-hour Reception day, I’m told, was “a very long time ‘til I can come home, Mum” (I don’t remember bringing poor Mum to tears, but do recall bugging my teacher incessantly to find out if it were home time yet!).
How do these kids pull 10 hour days while they’re still toddlers? Back in “my day”, it was criminal to have an after school activity scheduled too frequently since it was apparently too much for our little bodies to handle.
Do these long days include, say, a choice of dance or sport followed by homework assistance, nap or play time, time with the class gerbil/school puppy etc once the clock hits 3pm, 2pm if kids are there before 9? Because if so, then I would be in support of long hours, since it would ensure the kids are getting almost all areas of their development
met without the time lost in transport and the stress placed on parents.
But schools will likely need to forge partnerships with both private & community groups & services in order for this to be implemented, IMO.
This goes beyond school, it’s a issue that all of society needs to be on board with.
The single biggest obstacle to women fully accessing the workforce the way men do is school hours. We need to overhaul the education system to reflect that family needs have changed. Unfortunately this may mean teachers have to give up a few things but then most parents would surely agree to them being paid for all the paperwork they do as well as camps and after hours meetings. If women from all professions stick together, we could work it out to benefit all women, not just women who are teachers. They could start with curriculum days. Surely teachers could come back from leave a day early rather than working parents having to lose almost a week of their precious 4 week’s leave to cover it? It’s time to start considering all working women/parents.
...."All women" except women who don't children. Please remember that we exist too - and we don't stand to benefit anything by way of this. Being a woman does not equate to motherhood.
No, I'd say the biggest obstacle is an uneven load - who says the burden isn't on BOTH parents to manage the school vs work hours? Not just in women?
That would't fly in my household! We've set the tone from the beginning.
Thank you. Boy I feel invisible when "womanhood" and "women's issues" nearly always equate to children and child rearing
Teachers may have to give up a few things????? Like what - Lunch? Weekends? Seeing their own children? Work/life balance? Oh wait...that already happens. Teachers are already back at school for curriculum days before your kid starts back. Most have spent their holidays planning ahead for the new year, reading notes on all of your precious darlings individual needs whilst missing out on their children”s own. Many have been in at their schools over the holidays getting classrooms ready and buying new supplies to engage your children. Maybe actually speak to a teacher about what they already do rather than telling them to just do more.