The woman I was mentoring put her cup of tea down and said nervously: “Um..so Samantha, this is why I think I would make a good escort. I have a very high sex drive; I can’t get enough of it!” It was hard not to smile. Of course, anyone would think the same – that to be a ‘good’ escort you needed to have a huge appetite for sex, that you would be craving c*ck breakfast, lunch and dinner. Because that’s what we do isn’t it, us escorts? We spend day in, day out having sex. Lots of it. That we make, sometimes ridiculous amounts of, money to open our (fake tanned) legs.
Absolute codswallop.
Sure, there would be escorts out there who may disagree, but in my experience, and I can only talk about my experience, it’s not just the sex men come for. Not at all.
Of course, sex does happen for most, perhaps for five, 10 minutes at the max. But my most popular date? My four-hour dinner dates, where I charge $3300 for my time. How much sex do you think you can have in an upscale restaurant? None, (unless you find a broom cupboard and your name is Boris Becker).
Samantha talks to Mia about her ‘no intimacy’ dates on the latest episode of No Filter:
Usually, those dates go a bit like this: meet in his five-star hotel for a drink, get a car (usually he has pre-booked a nice one) to take out to somewhere where they have napkins and waiters in suits, enjoy a three-course meal together with champagne and usually oysters. That will take up at least two to three hours. Then usually back to his hotel. I used to see a client who would say to me ‘Now, please don’t take offence Samantha, but if it’s all the same to you, I would rather just cuddle tonight.” Thank God. All that rich food gives me gas anyway.
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I've nothing against prostitution at all - but WTF is with men? The man in this article has a wife and kids, is in love with another woman AND sees prostitutes?! And he's AFRAID of hurting his wife's feelings? Why, oh why do men always want to be the 'good guy'?! Why can't they stand people thinking they're total jerks when they behave like jerks? Just own it!
We don't know his wife or their relationship, so we can't really judge. I also notice when women write of affairs here (and yes they get criticised as well) they justify it as being in a trance with the other guy or that they felt emotionally unsatisfied. Maybe somewhere in there the answer is the same for men. But I agree that it's wrong either way.
so? What has this got to do with that?
So aggressive...
I used to have a guy pay me good money to spend an hour with him. We'd have sex for about 5 mins, then the rest of the time just chat in bed. He was still recovering from his wife dying, so would talk about her and his grandkids. I think it really helped him come to terms with being a single man. It only stopped once he met a nice lady that he started dating. It was a great arrangement, the meet-ups paid for my rent with some left over, i was a single mum going to uni at the time. Win/win for both of us.
I agree. When i was at university I escorted. At that time i could make three times the amount for a couple of hours of anal than a forty hour week at coles which allowed me to devote my time to my studies.
Most of the men I met were polite, decent and respectful. I dont see the harm or the need to shame.
I am always intrigued when people say 'anon for this', I'd love to know which commenter you are...but i respect your privacy.
I feel this sort of thing happens much more than people realise. I have also dated men for not so much cash in my hand, but them booking and paying for fancy hotel rooms, expensive booze and other supplies to have a fun night together. I could wrote a nook with the fun stuff i have got up to over the years, haha! :)