I am still traumatised 28 years after the birth of my 1st son by the Maternal Health nurse. Judgemental and scare mongering. In fact I hardly went and can't recall taking 2nd son at all. Am reliving the trauma through my step daughter and the rules given by the MCH when she returns to work. So many rules and regulations about what you can and can't do. I am dreading babysitting now.