Thank you for this article, and all the best to the writer. I’m a Mum of two young adults - my eldest, a son with the world at his feet; and my daughter who lives with significant developmental delays and intellectual impairment. Thank you for sharing your feelings as a sibling - you have beautifully articulated the frustrations, fears and overwhelming love that I see in my son. I shall hug them both a little tighter tonight. And God bless the amazing carers in the world who help families like mine survive and thrive - you are all angels on Earth xx