From my personal experience with females I have found that women are mostly focused on how sex feels for them. How they are enjoying it. I can't even say that they take their partners enjoyment into account. From my experience most women don't research how to get any better at what they are doing think that good sex is dependent solely on the male and have only a base knowledge of their own bodies (even though the information is out there). Of course this isn't all women. I have not spoken to all women. This is just from my experience. I don't know a whole lot of females who 1. Ask their partner "how it was for them" or 2. Would be satisfied with a "it was fine" from the male IF they did choose to ask. Foreplay is an exception, being that the person man/woman should be focused on what they are doing and how the other is enjoying it otherwise what are you doing?? Ask and encourage. Both sides. Ask and encourage.