Hmm, that sounds rough, but I understand you are still invited to the wedding? The headline and article was a little misleading - I thought you hadn’t been invited at all! A role in a wedding is not definitive of your relationship with a friend (nor a sibling for that matter). I can see it is uncomfortable and challenging for you, though I can also see that your friend values your input and opinion for her big day. I hope all goes well!
Hi Jess,