A nice fitted dress and then pockets on the hips! No one wants bulk there! Same goes with business pants - stop putting pockets right on the hip!
This is what my husband and I did with our two children - there’s more comraderie when someone is in the trenches with you. You don’t want to ‘give a report’ to your partner on how the night went. They need to live the experience with you, and share the problem solving. I also love the comment about not becoming the expert… challenges shared are better than suffered in isolation. Great advice, Holly.