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Benjamin David Steele December 6, 2022

I would add a qualification to one theory mentioned. I'm not sure that smart people are on average less happy. Consider that intelligence and liberalism have been closely associated in thousands of studies on personality, social views, politics, etc; as both seem to be expressions of the common factor of the dual personality trait openness/intellectuality. 


What studies have found is that conservatives self-report themselves as happier, apparently as an expression of conforming to a normative identity. But other studies have shown is that observers measure liberals as smiling more often and more genuinely (Duchenne smile that includes wrinkling around eyes). There is a big difference between those two.

Benjamin David Steele December 6, 2022

I guess this fits my experience, if biased. I'm above average in intelligence (according to IQ tests since childhood), have diverse intellectual interests, and constantly read difficult material. So, I'm 'learned' in that I know a little bit about a lot of things, though a college drop out; i.e., an autodidact. I was raised by college-educated professionals, both with teaching careers, one a public school teacher and the other a professor. That meant I had instilled in me a love of learning that, obviously, I don't personally identify with and limit to higher education. 


Having grown up in and still living in a college town, I'm surrounded by those of above average IQ. Being a well read intellectual doesn't necessarily make one particularly special in a college town. If anything, being surrounded by lots of smart informed people is humbling, as it's easy to meet someone who knows something you don't. An important part of being smart is realizing the limits of one's intellect and knowledge --- indeed, research shows less smart people tend to think they're smarter than they are.

Most of my closest friends and most of my immediate family members have college degrees, strongly correlated to IQ. It is true that, among this group, having a large numbers of friends is less common. Also, people in a community like this don't tend to be surrounded by a large kin network either. At present, I have 4 close friends with 3 of them having lasted more than 2 decades, one of those going back to early childhood. Am I predisposed to a small group of friends because I'm reasonably intelligent? I don't know. It's an interesting thought to consider.